James will be four on Saturday and is beside himself with excitement …

This is his first year of really ‘getting’ the whole birthday concept.

He will be having a bouncy castle party at our local leisure centre where a helper is provided and - crucially – a catering and clearing up service.

We asked him what he would like for a present now he was going to be such a big boy.

"Lace-up shoes please” was his earnest reply.